Visit prompt's column >>

PROMPTHome Page

Advocatus Diaboli
Add To Watchlist
Articles Posted: 115; Links Seeded: 1506
Member Since: 1/2006Last Seen: 11/28/2009

Church calls Alcoholics Anonymous a "cult" and bans it from its premises for sexual misconduct

advertisement

An Alcoholics Anonymous group known as Midtown has been barred from meeting at another church, News4 reported Monday.

Leaders of St. Mark's Presbyterian Church on Old Georgetown Road in Rockville said the group could no longer meet there, News4's Pat Collins said.

Last week, St. Patrick's Episcopal Church in Northwest, D.C., said the group could no longer meet at it's building.

Midtown also left The Church of the Pilgrims in downtown, D.C., about a year ago after church officials launched an investigation amid allegations of misconduct, Collins reported.

What's this?
Who's leading the conversation?
This visualization below allows you to see the impact that each user has on the current conversation. The top row contains the group of users who have had the most impact, the 2nd row the group of users who have had the 2nd most impact (et cetera). Users with similar impact are grouped together, and the average score of the group is shown to the left of the group. The author of the article is also shown on the left, in their corresponding group. Each user's score is based on the number of comments the user has made plus the number of votes their comments have received. The scores are calculated relative one another, so while their absolute value is not particularly important, their relative difference does indicate a larger difference in impact on the conversation.
8.6
5.0
1.8
{"commentId":708413,"authorDomain":"epiphany-sorbet"}

Well, after reading the article, there does seem to be some merit in evicting that particular AA cell from the churches. If there is an umbrella group that charters these individual groups, it should definitely look into this chapter.

{"commentId":708413,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"epiphany-sorbet"}
  • 6 votes
Reply#1 - Tue May 15, 2007 10:28 AM EDT
{"commentId":708565,"authorDomain":"gwenny"}

My personal opinion is that AA is a cult, sex or not. But I'm weird. :D

{"commentId":708565,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"gwenny"}
  • 5 votes
#1.1 - Tue May 15, 2007 11:28 AM EDT
{"commentId":711099,"authorDomain":"brendamayer"}

AA is an oddity. There is no mechanism for chartering groups. Anybody can start one and say they are one. Strange, I know, but it's been working successfully that way for almost 70 years. Therefore, there is no mechanism in place for kicking these nutjobs out. Although there is some controversy regarding this particular group, from what I've read online and people I've spoken with most long time AA's agree that these guys are not only NOT "real" AA, but they are actually dangerous. I could give you some specific references on this, but then I'd have to kill you 'cause of the whole anonymity thing. Sorry.

{"commentId":711099,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"brendamayer"}
  • 5 votes
#1.2 - Wed May 16, 2007 10:16 AM EDT
{"commentId":732001,"authorDomain":"andymartintrigfan1"}

It depends what you mean by success, doesn't it? I think AA has been successful at keeping alive a movement based on cult religion and quackery, despite a lack of evidence that it helps anyone. No doubt scientologists could claim a similar "success" with their "treatment program" for drug addicts.

{"commentId":732001,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"andymartintrigfan1"}
  • 1 vote
#1.3 - Thu May 24, 2007 4:05 PM EDT
Reply
{"commentId":714307,"authorDomain":"truthaboutmidtown"}

Misleading title! I am one of the AA members involved in outing this rogue group by the way! Midtown has been a thorn in our side for some time. Many of us have tried throughout the years to direct newcomers away from their meetings, but this is not effective since they often recruit though meetings inside detoxes and rehab institutions, before the people even attend a single real AA meeting.

One ex-member described them as "a shiny apple with a rotten core." Many newcomers are attracted to the group because everyone seems friendly and good looking. Their dependence on the group is then established through "love bombing", a cult tactic. Many will then overlook or excuse the terrible things that go on there. Those that do question the leadership are expelled from the group and essentially demonized so that their dissention does not spread.

In other words, this is absolutely not AA! I know some people don't like AA or think it's a cult, but this is an entirely different animal.

Read more about the Midtown Group and our efforts to expose them here:

{"commentId":714307,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"truthaboutmidtown"}
  • 3 votes
Reply#2 - Thu May 17, 2007 12:34 PM EDT
{"commentId":714452,"authorDomain":"brendamayer"}

One of the things that I have a serious problem with is the way some AA's used the traditions as a bat to keep people quiet about the practices in this group ie. being assigned a sponsor, dating/sex w/in the first year. The traditions were never intended to be used in this harmful way.

Significantly, in traditional AA the whole idea is for people to live in the outside world. This group, however, seems to discourage any outside contact, one of the hallmarks of a cult.

{"commentId":714452,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"brendamayer"}
  • 2 votes
#2.1 - Thu May 17, 2007 1:28 PM EDT
Reply
{"commentId":714318,"authorDomain":"truthaboutmidtown"}

that would be www dot thetruthaboutmidtown dot com

{"commentId":714318,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"truthaboutmidtown"}
  • 1 vote
Reply#3 - Thu May 17, 2007 12:37 PM EDT
{"commentId":730471,"authorDomain":"andymartintrigfan1"}

This cop-out of saying that an AA group which behaves unnacceptably is "not real AA" just won't do. What is wrong with this group is what is wrong with Alcoholics Anonymous per se. It claims to help people who suffer from alcoholism, which it defines as a "disease", but without offering any properly informed medical understanding of this problem. Instead of offering support and help with coping with a medical problem, AA seeks to recruit people with drink problems into a cult religion belief system based on the ideas of the otherwise largely forgotten and discredited evangelist Frank ND Buchman, who was once notorious for voicing support for Fascism and advocating a policy of appeasement before World War II.

The fact that there are no checks and balances in place in AA to prevent unqualified and unaccountable individuals having power and influence over the lives of vulnerable people creates an obvious and alarming potential for predatory behaviour to thrive behind the cloak of anonymity. This happens more often than is ever publicly admitted by AA. The particular group under discussion may just be a more blatant and organised example of such abuses, which are quite common within AA.

{"commentId":730471,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"andymartintrigfan1"}
  • 2 votes
Reply#4 - Thu May 24, 2007 7:30 AM EDT
{"commentId":730970,"authorDomain":"brendamayer"}

It's possible that I may be misinformed about what really goes on in AA, but I don't think so. AA itself did not and does not define alcoholism as a disease, nor does it make any diagnoses. The AMA, however, does, officially since 1966. As to Frank Buchman, I don't know who he is so I can't comment on that. While the early individual members of AA actively recruited in the late 30's and early 40's, this has not been AA's practice in many decades. I also can't speak as to how common midtown's abusive practices are since I don't know anybody who has experienced this aside from this individual group. It's entirely possible that it's going on somewhere else and I'm just unaware of it. IMO criticising all of AA based upon one group is about as valid as criticising the entire US based upon actions in "New York" or "St. Louis".

{"commentId":730970,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"brendamayer"}
  • 4 votes
Reply#5 - Thu May 24, 2007 11:11 AM EDT
{"commentId":781086,"authorDomain":"mswnoles"}

I am appalled that you think AA does not say alcoholism is a disease. I am currently tied up with this group after going to an ER because of drinking one night and taking my pills when I have been grieving over my mother's death. I am on a roller coaster now and have been MADE to go to AA and to an out patient treatment center and there the counselors repeatedly tell the patients that alcoholism is a DISEASE!!!! You need to go to a recovery center and ask the physicians there. I have docs going to AA meetings that are treating me! I am trying to get out of this cult! I hope you become better informed.

{"commentId":781086,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"mswnoles"}
  • 1 vote
#5.1 - Thu Jun 14, 2007 12:19 PM EDT
{"commentId":888520,"authorDomain":"dc46"}

As a longtime AA member, I can tell you that AA is a support group which has no counselors, no treatment program, no recovery centers, either inpatient or outpatient, does not make any diagnoses, does not tell anyone what to believe, either as far as alcoholism is concerned or as far as religion or God is concerned.

Doctors who go to AA meetings can tell you their medical opinion but this is not any position of AA. Any member of AA, or any other person in a free society, is allowed to tell you their opinion. This is not an opinion of AA. If you are not comfortable with an AA meeting or group, and you don't want to go but are required to go, find some other group or meeting. Meetings are as different as people. Good luck.

{"commentId":888520,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"dc46"}
    #5.2 - Mon Jul 23, 2007 5:15 PM EDT
    Reply
    {"commentId":731961,"authorDomain":"andymartintrigfan1"}

    My criticisms of AA are not based on the activities of one group. They are based on a thorough study of the central text which AA uses, namely Alcoholics Anonymous, otherwise known as the "Big Book" and other AA books such as "The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions", "AA Comes of Age", "Pass it On", "As Bill Sees It" and others. They are also based on attending literally thousands of AA meetings over a period of more than seventeen years and meeting and getting to know a huge mumber of people in AA as well as reading as much material as I could find about the origins of AA within the Oxford Group movement and studying contemporary accounts of Oxford Group beliefs and practices from the 1930s.
    As for Frank ND Buchman, he was the founder of the "Oxford Group", a misleadingly named religious movement which Oxford University had to make clear was never endorsed by them in any way. The co-founders of AA, William Wilson and Dr Robert Smith were members of Buchman's movement, which included many alcoholics. When they broke away from the Oxford Group, they retained an adherence to all of the central tenets of Buchmanism, as William Wilson made clear in "AA Comes of Age".
    The AA "program" simply cannot be understood without reference to the ideas of Buchman, which inluded the notion that people were "spiritually diseased" and "defeated by sin", over which Buchman taught people were powerless. He advocated public confession and claimed that he and his followers were divinely guided. He was much criticised by mainstream Christians, incuding theBishop of Durham, for preaching heretical ideas. It was the beginning of the end for his movement when he achieved worldwide nototriety by publicly praising Adolf Hitler in an interview in the New York World Telegram. He also stated that a God-inspired dictatorship (whatever that might be) would be a good thing.

    {"commentId":731961,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"andymartintrigfan1"}
    • 1 vote
    Reply#6 - Thu May 24, 2007 3:53 PM EDT
    {"commentId":743014,"authorDomain":"TattooedFrog"}

    I have no idea of what AA you have been attending but I'm sorry it's soured you against the group. I am an active member of AA in southern Indiana and at no time have I EVER been coerced, asked or demanded to do anything against my core values. It is said at many meetings and at all of the meetings here in this area that Dating and any form of starting a new relationship is not a good idea for at least the first year of sobriety. We base this on the fact that people have a higher chance of relapse from a bad relationship. We also say you should never make any MAJOR decision about current/ongoing relationships for the first year of sobriety. We say this because once you become better the family has a chance to become better and you owe it to your family "an amines" to give to them what you took for all those years "making a living amines". Everyone i have ever spoken too always tries to encourage you to make contact and keep contact with family and old friends UNLESS they are in active alcoholism and or addiction. I have NEVER heard of the principles you have described as a "CULT" behavior and if you see that then run like hell from that group and find another source of help. AA after all is not the only 12 step program out there. Many churches and hospitals offer recovery programs, try one of those, most of all just don't give up and don't buy into the hype that the "experience" of one person is the experience of everyone and that one "group" is a representative of all of the groups, another teaching in AA, always keep an open mind. If a person or a group of people are using their group for "13th stepping" (dating within the AA fellowship) they should be ashamed and those "old timers" who know the true intention of the AA 12 steps to help not harm other alcoholics in that area need to step up and start attending the offending meetings a shut mouth only breeds problems don't gossip about it go to the meetings and stay for the business meetings. if they are a thorn in your side be a bigger thorn in their sides. and make AA stand for in your community what it stands for in most of the World.

    {"commentId":743014,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"TattooedFrog"}
    • 2 votes
    #6.1 - Wed May 30, 2007 1:00 AM EDT
    Reply
    {"commentId":735166,"authorDomain":"PrimarySources"}

    Pot, meet kettle.

    {"commentId":735166,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"PrimarySources"}
    • 5 votes
    Reply#7 - Fri May 25, 2007 7:37 PM EDT
    {"commentId":791282,"authorDomain":"join"}

    Learning to use A.A. as a whole

    Some people love the vicarious atmosphere of a sponsorship and sponsors loves the thought of being responsible for someone else. The need to control and enjoy is the great obsession of every abnormal drinker that's why sponsorship is always being promoted as A.A. was and is wise enough not to even mentioned the word in the Big Book, Steps or Traditions. The Pacifica group and Big Book group in LA are heavy into sponsorship and control
    If ones denial cannot see the obvious, ask a newcomer already here in A.A.. If one is new - sponsorship can be hard to swallow at first but as people promoting it, one gets use to it or else. Sounds a little like ones first drink

    They will claim "People are different, and you need to find a person who fits your needs"
    A.A. states that God could and would if sought.
    It ceases to amaze me that people feel they can fit another needs!
    It is better to Come then Come to and hopefully one may come to believe in the message from the Big Book – Burn it into the conscious that one needs to clean house and trust in God than to follow the profit of a sponsor. Sponsorship is the downfall of A.A. which is taking it from the inside out. Make the so called sponsors live up to their title and charge them not the new comes that just want to live on.

    {"commentId":791282,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"join"}
      Reply#8 - Mon Jun 18, 2007 11:31 PM EDT
      {"commentId":888527,"authorDomain":"dc46"}

      As a longtime AA member, I can tell you that AA is a support group which has no counselors, no treatment program, no recovery centers, either inpatient or outpatient, does not make any diagnoses, does not tell anyone what to believe, either as far as alcoholism is concerned or as far as religion or God is concerned.

      Doctors who go to AA meetings can tell you their medical opinion but this is not any position of AA. Any member of AA, or any other person in a free society, is allowed to tell you their opinion. This is not an opinion of AA. If you are not comfortable with an AA meeting or group, and you don't want to go but are required to go, find some other group or meeting. Meetings are as different as people. Good luck.

      {"commentId":888527,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"dc46"}
        Reply#9 - Mon Jul 23, 2007 5:18 PM EDT
        {"commentId":888535,"authorDomain":"dc46"}

        As a longtime AA member, I can tell you that AA is a support group which has no counselors, no treatment program, no recovery centers, either inpatient or outpatient, does not make any diagnoses, does not tell anyone what to believe, either as far as alcoholism is concerned or as far as religion or God is concerned.

        Doctors who go to AA meetings can tell you their medical opinion but this is not any position of AA. Any member of AA, or any other person in a free society, is allowed to tell you their opinion. This is not an opinion of AA. If you are not comfortable with an AA meeting or group, and you don't want to go but are required to go, find some other group or meeting. Meetings are as different as people. Good luck.

        {"commentId":888535,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"dc46"}
          Reply#10 - Mon Jul 23, 2007 5:21 PM EDT
          {"commentId":888539,"authorDomain":"dc46"}

          As a longtime AA member, I can tell you that AA is a support group which has no counselors, no treatment program, no recovery centers, either inpatient or outpatient, does not make any diagnoses, does not tell anyone what to believe, either as far as alcoholism is concerned or as far as religion or God is concerned.

          Doctors who go to AA meetings can tell you their medical opinion but this is not any position of AA. Any member of AA, or any other person in a free society, is allowed to tell you their opinion. This is not an opinion of AA. If you are not comfortable with an AA meeting or group, and you don't want to go but are required to go, find some other group or meeting. Meetings are as different as people. Good luck.

          {"commentId":888539,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"dc46"}
            Reply#11 - Mon Jul 23, 2007 5:21 PM EDT
            {"commentId":888552,"authorDomain":"dc46"}

            (Sorry, I kept getting the response that my comment was not posted so I reposted twice.)

            {"commentId":888552,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"dc46"}
              Reply#12 - Mon Jul 23, 2007 5:25 PM EDT
              {"commentId":1036283,"authorDomain":"witchofthenorth"}

              Maybe Jon can delete some of your repeats.

              {"commentId":1036283,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"witchofthenorth"}
                #12.1 - Wed Sep 19, 2007 6:49 PM EDT
                Reply
                {"commentId":2385102,"authorDomain":"Shell5"}

                I have attended AA for over 7 years now and have remained completely sober. The longer I am sober the more I see things that I do not agree with. For example, a friend of mine went out and drank the other day because there was 13 stepping and sex going on in the group as well as people with each other who are married to someone else. One of them has over 12 years sober. I believe those who are doing well at the time have a responsibility to say something about this behavior. Although AA is a spiritual program and we should be tolerant of others we should also realize that the newcomer as well as ourselves are in the room to get sober on a daily basis and if this behavior continues in the room and continues to harm others it does effect the group in a negative way. I did say something in the meeting the other day. I am not the most popular person, but I cannot worry about that. I have to continue to do what is right and what I believe God wants me to do. Time in the program doesn't matter. I want a group to go to that is growing not getting sicker.

                {"commentId":2385102,"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011","authorDomain":"Shell5"}
                  Reply#13 - Wed Aug 6, 2008 7:47 PM EDT
                  {"canLink":false,"threadId":"103597","isPrivate":false}
                  Leave a Comment:
                  You're in Easy Mode. If you prefer, you can use XHTML Mode instead.
                  As a new user, you may notice a few temporary content restrictions. Click here for more info.
                  {"threadId":"103597","contentId":"720011"}
                  Start TrackingStart Tracking
                  Stop TrackingStop Tracking